You Can’t Claim a Promise
Posted on May 8, 2014 1 Comment
One of the Christian messages out there today is something known as “name it, claim it”. It is known also by other names (the “prosperity gospel” being one), but the basic idea is this: God has made promises in his Word to you, and your job is to claim them. The reason Christians lack anything is because they do not lay hold of the promises of God. In your minds eye, picture it like God holding out a gift to you. We fail to receive the gift not because God doesn’t offer it, but because we don’t reach out and grab it. In other words, name the promise God has made and then claim it as your own.
I have several issues with this teaching, but the one I want to highlight here is this: you can’t claim a promise. It is literally impossible. In fact, it doesn’t even make sense. Allow me to explain.
Let’s use the most frequent and most powerful promise that God gives us in the Bible.
I am with you always… (Matthew 28:20)
God’s presence is the most commonly mentioned promise in the Word, mentioned repeatedly to individuals but also to whole nations and most certainly to all who follow Jesus Christ. This promise is meant to be the most comforting thought a person can have. In the midst of trial, heartache, persecution, loneliness, or whatever else, we are never alone. God is with us.
Now, imagine for a moment that a believer is doubting God’s presence. For some reason, God feels distant. They open up the Word and read that God promises to be with them. They close their eyes and in an act of faith, pray “God, you promised you would be with me. I claim this promise as my own! I believe!”
On the outside, this seems like an act of faith – and indeed it is. But I will tell you what it is not. It is not making the promise any more true than it was 10 seconds earlier. The human eye may see faith, but the spiritual eye sees God standing right next to the person saying “I’ve been here the whole time!”
My problem with claiming a promise is that it can’t be done. A promise is true, or it is no promise at all. Even if a promise remains unclaimed, does God not follow through anyways? The “name it, claim it” teaching suggests that the claiming of a promise is what activates that promise. Without the claiming, a promise lays there limp and lifeless. But this is not true. God’s promises are sure and true wether we doubt them or claim them with emphatic exuberance.
In the “name it, claim it” crowd, usually the promise has something to do with material blessing or physical healing. God wants to prosper you, so you need to claim it. God wants to heal you, so you need to claim it. The key to getting it is faith. Yet this “claiming” is not the same as faith. One can say they have faith without truly having it. Claiming a promise is not necessarily the same as having true faith. True faith of the heart simply believes that God can heal or provide and has a quiet trust that God will do what God will do. Many of the “promises” of the “name it, claim it” crowd are not Scriptural promises at all.
The beauty of God’s promises are that many of them are unconditional. Our faith does not need to activate the promise. It is already in full swing. Instead, faith gives us the ability to see that it is true, even if we do not feel like it is at the time. So, in reality, there are only two correct responses to God’s promises: (1) action that meets God’s requirement for a conditional promise, which is not the same as merely claiming, or (2) simply believing that God is already fulfilling an unconditional promise. To claim a promise simply makes no sense. A promise is a promise wether it is claimed or not.
Fellow believers, let us not behave as if God needed our permission to follow through on what he already said he would do. He is God. When he makes a promise, it is sure and steady as the rising sun. On that we need not lay a claim, but simply enjoy the surety that comes from our faithful God.
Kill Your Inner Drama Queen
Posted on May 2, 2014 Leave a Comment
There’s no technical definition for the term “drama queen”, yet pretty much anyone can spot a drama queen from a mile away! As I see it, a drama queen is a person (not necessarily female) who has an inordinate desire for attention, even if it is negative. A drama queen relishes having something to talk about, something significant going on in their life. To a drama queen, nothing could be worse than boredom. The drama queen simply needs to always have something going on, and if there is nothing noteworthy happening around them, they take necessary action to make something happen. Despite most drama queen’s complaining about how complicated their life is, they never seem to really do much about it – at least, nothing productive to find a solution to their problems. Instead, they simply whine loudly about their dilemma, creating more drama and feeding the cycle until it becomes an uncontrollable hurricane.
The drama queen needs drama in their life. They need it to survive (or so they think). Usually it is because they need to feel important. For whatever reason, they are not satisfied with the mundane. They are unhappy being normal or average. They don’t want to blend in. Instead, they must be the focus, the centre of the spotlight. A few reasons that drama queen’s crave attention could be:
- They are afraid of not being noticed by anyone
- They like the feeling of being perceived as important
- They love gossip
- They get joy out of meddling in other people’s lives
- They have nothing better to do with their time
- They lack a life ambition
- They want people to think they are “in the know”
- They can’t back down from a fight or let things go
- They have thin skin
- They think it is their job to fix everyone’s problems
As a youth pastor, I have seen my fair share of drama queens. It’s not exclusive to teenagers by any means (there are drama queens that are 5 or 55), but high school seems to be drama central. I took some time recently to speak with my students about the importance of killing the urge to be a drama queen. It starts by recognizing why you have the urge to be in the thick of drama to begin with. From there, we need to move to the appropriate Biblical remedy. Some of the more prominent truths that would be pertinent would be:
- Care what God thinks more than what people think
- Be secure with who you are in Christ
- Learn how to forgive and turn the other cheek
- Do constructive things with your time
- Walk away from gossip
The Bible actually has a lot to say about handling drama. Sometimes drama can’t be avoided, but most of the time it can be, and even if not, usually its effects on our lives can be lessened by good use of wisdom. Drama queens are always in the thick of drama not because they can’t escape it, but because they don’t want to or don’t know how to.
1 Thessalonians 4:11 says “aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs”. This is some concise, straightforward advice. We ought to desire to live “quiet” lives; we don’t always need to be the centre of attention or the one stirring the pot. We can do a lot to achieve a quiet life by minding our own business. If it doesn’t involve you, stay out of it! Of course, there may be times when loving interventions are needed, but far too often we are just sticking our noses into other people’s affairs. Let our aim be to live a peaceful life doing the things that God has called us to do.
Another great text on this subject is 2 Timothy 2:22-23, which states:
[22] So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. [23] Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels.
Often this verse is used to promote sexual purity, conveyed by the idea of fleeing “youthful passions” and seeking a “pure heart”. But in actuality the context of this command is about drama. The words “controversies”, “quarrels”, and “quarrelsome” (vs. 24) all indicate that the subject matter is primarily drama. The drama queen is indulging in “youthful passions”, which is another way of saying their behaviour is immature. Instead, the wise person has nothing to do with stupid controversies that only lead to drama. Sometimes we just need to learn when to shut our mouths and walk away. Not only is it often the mature thing to do, but it quickly kills drama and significantly improves our quality of life. Someone who knows how to walk away from drama enjoys the peace and tranquility of a quiet life. This is how God intends his people to live.
The internet has definitely done a lot to fuel the fire of a drama queen. When it comes to this, I would encourage anyone to live by this old cliche: less is more. Take it easy with the social media and be the peacemaker. And if you still can’t manage to control it, stay away altogether.
So, how about you? Are you feeding your inner drama queen, or starving her out? I would encourage you to enjoy the life of peace available to those who walk away from unnecessary drama.
Why Pray in Jesus’ Name?
Posted on April 28, 2014 Leave a Comment
…and we pray this in Jesus’ name, Amen.
Heard that one before? If you’ve been around Christians much at all, no doubt this is a phrase you are well acquainted with. But why do Christians pray “in Jesus’ name”, and what does it even really mean? Remember, we shouldn’t do something simply because it’s what we are used to or because we have seen other believers do it. Instead of tacking on a meaningless (to us) phrase at the end of our prayers, we should understand why we say it, and what it means. Otherwise, we’re not really being genuine. So let’s take a quick look at this habit from the Bible’s point of view.
The simplest answer to why we should pray in Jesus’ name is that Jesus said we should. Jesus says in John 14:13-14…
Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.
The context is clearly prayer. So, we see that it is right for believers to pray in Jesus’ name and that there is Biblical warrant for doing so. Still, even if Jesus says we should, it’s good to understand why Jesus says it. Part of the reason we pray in Jesus’ name is because we have no authority apart from him to pray to God at all. We are all sinners and God is holy. Who are we to approach his throne? It is only because of Jesus’ sacrifice on our behalf that we may come to God in prayer. Remember that Jesus is the way to God, and that no one comes to the Father but through him (John 14:6). When we pray in his name, we are stating the authority we have to come before God. God listens to our prayers because we are sinless through the blood of Christ.
Some suggest that we don’t need to actually say Jesus’ name when we pray as long as we know in our hearts that we are praying in his name. I think this to be true. The phrase “in Jesus’ name” is not a magic formula to make our prayers work. It is stating a reality that we are coming to God by the authority granted us in Christ. This is real whether we say it or not. So I don’t think that if someone fails to say “in Jesus’ name” while praying that their prayers are rendered less effective. Yet at the same time, there is power in Jesus’ name (Philippians 2:10, Acts 4:12) and so I personally think it is a good habit to actually pray in Jesus’ name verbally instead of making it an unspoken assumption.
Praying in Jesus’ Name = 100% of Prayers Answered?
Jesus said that if we pray in his name that he will do whatever we ask. Wow! Now there is a powerful statement. There are no other clauses or conditions listed other than praying in his name. This is a promise that should bolster our prayer life. But at the same time, we should be careful, because some have misused this promise to promote a false teaching.
Jesus does not mean that if you say “in Jesus’ name” at the end of your prayers, whatever you asked for before it would come to pass. That is the surface meaning of John 14:13-14, but it is good to link together concepts in the Bible to get a bigger picture. Many other passages could be brought up here, but the one I’ll mention is 1 John 5:14-15…
And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him.
Notice first that the author of both of these passages of Scripture is John, so we must rule out that these passages could contradict each other. John is not contradicting here but rather clarifying. By placing these texts side by side it becomes clear that praying in Jesus’ name and praying according to the will of God are the same thing. Otherwise, what would happen if one prayed “in Jesus’ name” something that was not God’s will? God would be forced into keeping one promise at the expense of another. But prayer does not work that way!
Consider this illustration. Imagine a man praying “God, please get my girlfriend to sleep with me, in Jesus’ name, Amen”. Is God now obligated to answer that prayer, like Jesus suggests in John 14? Of course not! Why? Because that would not be the will of God. This is how 1 John 5 helps to clarify Jesus’ promise of answered prayer. To pray in Jesus’ name means that we are praying God’s will to be done. In a case like that, where our prayers line up with the will of God, Jesus guarantees that our prayers will be both heard and answered. Praise God! This is one reason it is good to seek the will of God diligently. Being confused on God’s will can hinder our prayer life, even if we think we are praying in Jesus’ name.
So, next time you go to pray, do so in Jesus’ name, but just make sure that you are praying the will of God. Prayer is powerful if we approach it with the mindset that God’s will is beautiful and wonderful and perfect. Jesus is more than happy to do the will of his Father.
Youth Ministry Outreach Idea: Cupcake Day
Posted on April 24, 2014 Leave a Comment
One of the most successful youth outreach ideas I’ve used is something we call Cupcake Day. Once a year, our ISCF (Inner-School Christian Fellowship) club at the local high school gives away hundreds of free cupcakes to the students and staff, all for FREE! It’s simple, fun, and reaches tons of people you’d never otherwise connect with. To get a better understanding of how it works, here is some of the details. Feel free to totally steal this idea or morph it into something of your own creation!
Having a ridiculous amount of cupcakes is key to making this event successful. Most high schools have bake sales and things of that nature, but Cupcake Day must stand out! One important thing is that we’ve always made Cupcake Day totally free. We also make at least enough cupcakes to give one per student and staff. In order to make that happen, the church family needs to help out. We typically ask people in the church to donate baked, un-iced cupcakes for a specific day (usually two days before Cupcake Day). Then, the day before, we have the students ice them and add their own decorative touch. This system works well for a few reasons. One, baking about 1,000 cupcakes is really hard to do at one time, but if many families make 3 or 4 dozen it becomes more reasonable. Second, many church members want to support youth ministry but simply can’t. Yet virtually anyone can make cupcakes, so I have found that people support this event like crazy. It helps people feel like they are contributing (which they are), spreads the work around, and is cost-effective. A third reason it works is that having the students ice the cupcakes causes them to have some investment in the prep work, even if they didn’t bake them.
We have found that the best place to have Cupcake Day is in the cafeteria. The first time we tried it, we had it in the room our ISCF group meets in (with the hope that people would easily remember where it is for the following week). What we found was that cupcake wrappers got EVERYWHERE, which made the custodial staff upset. Better to have it in the cafeteria where the mess is contained. It also makes the event more visible.
Cupcake Day is always free but on one occasion we made available a donation jar. The money raised went to help support the 2 foster children our group has financially adopted. Most students didn’t donate but staff usually does. Again, this isn’t meant to be a fundraiser but an outreach, so making money isn’t all that important.
Another twist you can add to this event is giving away something evangelistic in nature. In the past we have had the Gideon’s help us give away New Testaments, other times we gave out gospel tracts, and yet another time we gave away info cards about our group with an invitation to come to our next meeting. If you take the last approach, it’s good to have something specific and interesting you are inviting them to.
One thing students regularly asked us was “Why are you doing this?” We would respond with simple answers like:
- We just want to make the school a better place.
- We are Christians who just want to share the love of God.
- Because Jesus said we should love our neighbour…and who doesn’t like cupcakes?!
Make sure you share that the motivation for this event is love.
One of the greatest challenges to Cupcake Day is transporting cupcakes from the church to the school. One thing that can make this easier is getting stackable boxes from local grocery stores. I have brought as many as 1,400 cupcakes in my small car by being strategic with packing them and living by the motto where there is a will, there is a way!
In the end, all the hard work is worth it when you see so many people enjoying free cupcakes. It leaves a positive vibe in the school and helps share God’s love in a practical way. Try your own Cupcake Day and let me know how it goes!
Which Cup Will You Drink From: Wrath or Salvation?
Posted on April 18, 2014 1 Comment
After Jesus and his disciples finished their passover meal (the Last Supper), they went to the Garden of Gethsemane to pray. Matthew 26 verses 39 and 42 records Jesus’ prayer:
And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.”…. Again, for the second time, he went away and prayed, “My Father, if this cannot pass unless I drink it, your will be done.”
What is “the cup” that Jesus must “drink” from?
The Cup of God’s Wrath
The Old Testament makes roughly a dozen references to the cup of God’s wrath. It is the righteous judgment that God stores up to be poured out on the wicked. We must remember that our God is a holy God. He does not stand for injustice and he does not tolerate sin. All wrongdoing will be met with his judgment, and his wrath on sinful man is being stored in a cup. This is the imagery of the Bible, as evidenced by these few examples:
Psalm 11:6 Let him rain coals on the wicked; fire and sulfur and a scorching wind shall be the portion of their cup.
Psalm 75:8 For in the hand of the LORD there is a cup with foaming wine, well mixed, and he pours out from it, and all the wicked of the earth shall drain it down to the dregs.
Jeremiah 25:15 Thus the LORD, the God of Israel, said to me: “Take from my hand this cup of the wine of wrath, and make all the nations to whom I send you drink it.
This imagery is carried over into the New Testament as well:
Revelation 14:9-10 And another angel, a third, followed them, saying with a loud voice, “If anyone worships the beast and its image and receives a mark on his forehead or on his hand, he also will drink the wine of God’s wrath, poured full strength into the cup of his anger, and he will be tormented with fire and sulfur in the presence of the holy angels and in the presence of the Lamb.
The cup that Jesus is speaking of in Gethsemane is the cup of God’s wrath. While certainly Jesus would have had some trepidation about facing the physical pain he would endure, this is not the cup that he desires to pass over him. The cup is the spiritual wrath that he would drink as the sacrificial Lamb. The will of the Father was to put forth his Son as a willing, innocent sacrifice for the redemption of sinners. Jesus purchased our forgiveness on the cross by bearing our sin and drinking fully the wrath of God for sin.
1 John 4:10 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation [satisfying sacrifice] for our sins.
Isaiah 53:10 Yet it was the will of the Lord to crush him…
1 Peter 2:24 He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.
The Cup of Salvation
Because Jesus satisfied the wrath of God by dying for sin, all who trust in Christ are no longer under the wrath of God. Instead, we are adopted into his family and given eternal life. All believers are free from condemnation and inherit blessings from God. We are saved from God’s wrath because of Jesus’ death in our place. Therefore, we do not live under the cup of wrath but under the cup of salvation.
Psalm 116:13 I will lift up the cup of salvation and call on the name of the LORD
The cup of salvation represents forgiveness, freedom, and fellowship with God. This picture is central to the Last Supper, where Jesus highlighted the importance of drinking the cup.
Matthew 26:27-28 And he took a cup, and when he had given thanks he gave it to them, saying, “Drink of it, all of you, for this is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.
The cup of salvation is the cup of the new covenant, purchased by the blood of Christ.
Hebrews 9:15 Therefore he is the mediator of a new covenant, so that those who are called may receive the promised eternal inheritance, since a death has occurred that redeems them from the transgressions committed under the first covenant.
Jesus’ shed blood purchased our salvation. It satisfied the wrath of God. When we take communion, we are symbolically showing that we have partaken of the cup of salvation.
Which Cup Will You Drink From?
Every single person is going to partake from one of these two cups: the cup of God’s wrath or the cup of God’s salvation. The cup of wrath is waiting for those who remain in their sin. The cup of salvation is available to anyone who places their faith in Jesus as Saviour. Anyone who has not drank from the free cup of God’s salvation is by default living under the first cup, which will be poured out in full on judgment day.
I encourage you to escape God’s wrath for your sin and experience forgiveness and new life in Christ. He alone is able to satisfy the wrath of God on your behalf. He alone is the spotless Lamb who takes away the sins of the world. He alone is able to appease God’s demand for holiness by his sinless life. Jesus is the only answer to man’s greatest problem, the problem of sin and impending judgment.
For those of us who have already trusted Christ and received forgiveness, may we partake of the Lord’s Table with new eyes. Every time we take the bread and drink the wine, be reminded that the cup of salvation is offered as a free gift. No one deserves it. God offers it because he loves us, because he is patient, because he is greater than we are. That ought to inspire us to worship.
4 Dangers of Being a Church Kid
Posted on April 12, 2014 Leave a Comment
Many Christians, like me, grew up going to church. Our earliest memories include attending church. It has been a part of our lives from the beginning and in many ways this is a great blessing. I cannot think of a circumstance where it would be better to not have grown up in church. As far as I can tell, being part of a church from childhood is a great thing and is to be desired for all children.
Yet, as virtually all of us church kids know, there are dangers and downsides too. Growing up in church can potentially set people up for some spiritual struggles later in life. It’s good for us to know what they are and be wary of them. Here are a few that I can think of.
1. Becoming an empty, religious shell
Because they grew up in church, church kids learn the “lingo” of Christianity from infancy. At a young age they can recognize Bible figures and stories, learn how to pray out loud, converse about spiritual matters, and know how to get the approval of older Christians. It can easily become all about the external and not the internal: using the right words without knowing what they mean, praying out loud without actually having concern for people in our hearts, caring about the approval of adults rather than the approval of God, faking “goodness” in front of the right people to protect our holy image, singing worship songs without thinking about what we are saying…the list could go on and on. In other words, it is easy for church kids to start going through the motions. When this happens, they become a religious shell with nothing going on inside. This is the exact opposite of Christianity, which is all about the transforming power of God working in our hearts to change us and make us born again. Church kids, because of their immersion in a Christian culture, can adapt to their surroundings without ever experiencing true faith on the inside. This is a sad and dangerous reality, and is the main reason for kids leaving the church when they grow up.
2. Getting sucked into the Christian bubble
The Christian bubble is how many believers live their life – cut off from the outside, non-Christian world. Church kids are especially vulnerable to this because they have less say over where they go and who they hang out with than adults do. At least, as an adult, a person can choose to break out of the Christian bubble if they wanted to. They have the independence to do it. However, a church kid does not. Often their whole life revolves around the church. Virtually everyone they know is Christian, and those who aren’t are often branded as “bad influences”. This can have negative effects in two opposite directions. One, the church kid gets older and starts to experience life outside the Christian bubble and likes it. Sin becomes intriguing and rebellion enjoyable. They allow ungodly people to influence them and they become entangled in unholy living. Or, secondly, the church kid can experience life outside the Christian bubble and react with fear and disgust. They withdraw even more intensely from the evil around them, making them virtually useless as a witness to others and often times a self-righteous snob. On the contrary, Jesus desires his followers to “be in the world but not of the world”. This can really hard for church kids to do.
3. Relying on the faith of others
Church kids can appear to have a thriving, active faith while having virtually none at all. This is because they can ride on the faith of others for a long time before it seems to affect them. Who needs to read or study the Bible for themselves when someone else has done it and will teach me what they learned every week? How hard is it to participate in community service when everyone else in my youth group is doing it? Why would I question the authority and authenticity of the Bible if my pastor doesn’t seem to question it? Church kids can have a hard time thinking for themselves. They can be surrounded by so many people who have thriving faith that it simply rubs off on them – but not always in the genuine sense, but rather a superficial way where church kids never really wrestle with issues for themselves but are content for others to live out their Christian walk for them. This may work for a while but when real life hits them between the eyes and they are forced to rely on their own trust in God, trouble arises.
4. Undermining the primary importance of the gospel
Church kids have heard the gospel a million times before they even start kindergarten. They know about sin and heaven and hell and that they need to accept Jesus as their Saviour. By the time they hit age 10, the gospel is ancient news. Usually, church kids move on from the gospel to moralism – living a life that is pleasing to God. Moral choices do matter and are an essential part of the Christian life, but when the gospel gets dropped from the picture, the whole system becomes distorted and genuine Christianity is lost. Sadly, many church kids get bored with Jesus. His sacrifice doesn’t move them to worship. His blood-soaked cross seems mundane. His resurrection is reduced to a mere fact. The reality of eternity becomes blase. Forgiveness is taken for granted. And before you know it, the gospel that once was central becomes secondary, which then becomes a footnote, and then is forgotten altogether. O that churches would always keep Jesus in his rightful place! Front and centre and there alone and always is where Christ belongs. Only then can we reverse the trend of church kids never coming to true faith in Jesus.
What do you think? What else might you add to this list?
Pay Attention for “Esther Moments”
Posted on April 6, 2014 Leave a Comment
If you aren’t familiar with the book of Esther in the Bible, here is a brief recap. Esther is a poor Hebrew girl who, through a strange and disturbing series of events, is vaulted out of her lowly position to be crowned queen of Babylon. Haman, the king’s right hand man, is plotting to destroy all of the Jews and tricks the king into signing an edict approving of this genocide. Esther, as both a Jew and the queen, is suddenly found to be in a unique position to step in and try to stop this tragic event from happening. Esther’s uncle Mordecai comes to Esther and urges her not to remain silent, and poses this question:
And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this? (Esther 4:14)
Esther enters the king’s presence (something that potentially could be punished by death) and makes her case. The king creates a counter edict to protect the Jews and eventually the Hebrews are saved and Haman is put to death.
When Courage and Opportunity Meet
Esther was placed by God into a unique position to make a difference. No other person had the influence to sway the king. Likewise, no other person was as admired by the king as Esther. These circumstances allowed her to be a unique answer to prayer and deliver God’s people from death. She courageously risked her life to do the right thing when the opportunity arose, and her actions made a world of difference.
You and I may not be people of such power or position, yet we too can have “Esther moments” – situations in life where God has uniquely placed us to step in and make a difference. This doesn’t mean we should walk around thinking we are heroes in the waiting. I’m not advocating a saviour complex. But I am putting forth that each of us has been placed in unique situations that are unlike anyone else’s, and God uses such things to accomplish his purposes. He sovereignly orchestrates our lives to do his will. Another Biblical example is the apostle Paul, who, as an Israelite with Roman citizenship and a Greek education, was uniquely well-suited to be the first missionary to the Gentiles.
As you and I go about our busy lives, let’s not forget that there are people around us that God has put in our lives so that we could reach out to them in various ways. Far too often we just coast through life, paying attention to our own matters, all the while missing out on opportunities to be the hands and feet of Christ. O that we would not be so selfish and oblivious! Take time to pray this week that your eyes would be open for the Esther moments that God has ordained for you. And, like Esther, respond with courage to those moments instead of with passivity or fear. God is ready to use you as the answer to someone else’s prayer, if only we would be ready for “such a time as this”.
What Does the Bible Say About Women Pastors?
Posted on April 2, 2014 10 Comments
Does the Bible forbid women pastors?
Christians are divided on this issue, and to be upfront, it is a secondary issue and not one of primary importance (like the existence of heaven and hell, Jesus as the only Saviour etc.). Still, the Bible does address this topic, and in our effort to be faithful to the Scriptures, we need to carefully examine what the Word of God says and stand by it unapologetically. Additionally, the leadership of Jesus’ Church is an important thing to get right, so we should not approach this question flippantly.
The most straightforward text in the whole Bible on this issue is 1 Timothy 2:11-12, which says
[11] Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. [12] I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.
In today’s feminist society, these words may seem shocking and repulsive. Yet we must treat them with reverence as the Lord’s instruction. There are several mistakes that one can make when interpreting this passage. Here are a few:
- Isolate the passage from the rest of the New Testament. This may be the primary text on this issue, but it is not the only one. We should consider the entire scope of teaching to arrive at the most accurate view.
- Let our emotions get the better of us. When dealing with a potentially volatile issue, our emotions can override our thinking and lead us to false conclusions. We need to remain rational and interpret the Bible soundly and not based on our initial emotional response.
- Fail to embrace the spirit of the text. Words matter, but even Jesus pressed that we can become too legalistic if we do not grasp the general spirit that a text is written in.
- Allow culture to override Scripture. Our own understanding of certain words and phrases are shaped by the culture we live in. When studying the Bible, we are reading across cultures and so need to make a conscious effort to keep our culturally shaped views from intruding on the meaning of the text.
The obvious meaning of 1 Timothy 2:11-12 is that Paul is indeed forbidding women as pastors. It is the conclusion that one would come to from a plain reading of the text. The idea of teaching or exercising authority are the two distinguishing marks of an elder/pastor in the Bible (1 Timothy 3, Titus 1). It is what separates elders from deacons and other members of the church. If Paul, under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, forbids these two functions from women in the Church, then he is closing off the opportunity for women to pastor men. Yet the matter is not so simple, so let’s probe a little further by asking some important questions.
What is meant by teaching and exercising authority?
Since these are the two functions that are explicitly spoken of, we should seek to understand exactly what meaning the author had in mind.
Thankfully, we do not need to get into complicated word studies to learn what Paul had in mind. The english translation is a sound translation of this text. The word “teach” in verse 12 has no hidden meaning to it. This word, and everywhere else it is used in the New Testament, means simply to instruct with authority. It is the function of elders/pastors to teach the truth and to contend with false teachers. Teaching can have a variety of styles to it, including preaching to large crowds or giving counsel one-on-one.
Similarly, exercising authority means exactly what it sounds like. This function in the New Testament belongs to elders, also known as “overseers”, who are to shepherd God’s flock as the leaders of Christ’s Church. Exercising authority is not the same as giving counsel, sharing wisdom, and in some cases making decisions. These are not functions that are being necessarily forbidden in 1 Timothy 2:11-12.
What role or roles are being forbidden to women?
There appears to be only one role being withheld from women: as elders/pastors over men in the Church. Since the “teaching” and “exercising authority” duties are held by elders, and Paul specifically uses the phrase “over a man”, we should not extend these restrictions any further than Scripture does. This would mean that women could:
- teach children
- teach women
- teach youth
- have authority over children
- have authority over youth
- have authority over other women in certain circumstances
- function as a guest speaker in church gatherings
- write and publish
- speak on Christian radio/podcasts
These, and many other leadership roles, are not Biblically withheld from women. Essentially, anything that is not an elder role over men is within Scriptural bounds. Of course, women who are in positions of leadership still need to meet other spiritual qualifications and demonstrate competence for their role (as any leader would), but their gender would not alter their qualification in any circumstance other than eldership.
Isn’t this command from Paul based on his cultural views?
This is an important question. I have heard it said by many who permit women pastors that Paul’s command is not binding in modern times because of the cultural view of women in his day. For instance, it was common for men and women to sit on separate sides during church gatherings, and (some say) that women would attempt to speak with their husbands across the room if they did not understand what was being said by the preacher. This would warrant Paul’s command to “learn quietly” and “remain quiet”.
Another factor is that women were not commonly well educated in Paul’s day. They would have been unlearned, often unable to read at all, and therefore unfit to serve as teachers. By contrast, women in our society are often highly educated and there are no real distinctions in the ability to learn between men and women.
While these arguments point out some significant cultural truths, the problem with basing one’s opinion on them is that Paul does not base his command on culture or the level of education among women. So, these arguments do not really push against the actual reasoning Paul uses.
What is Paul’s basis for making the command?
Paul forbids women elders not based on culture or personal views but on the order of creation. This is made plain by the very next verses (1 Timothy 2:13-14):
[13] For Adam was formed first, then Eve; [14] and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.
The “for” in verse 13 shows that what Paul is about to say is the basis for the command. Women cannot be elders (teach or have authority over a man) for or because Adam was created first by God, and it was Eve who was deceived by the serpent. This is important for a number of reasons.
First, the appeal to the creation order means that cultural barriers are removed. Adam was not formed first because he lived in a male-driven society. Neither did Paul choose this command because of cultural conditioning that had brainwashed his view. Instead, it was simply God’s plan to do it that way.
Second, the appeal to creation means that sin is not a factor. Adam and Eve were created perfect, and everything was “very good” before they sinned and the Fall took place. It can’t be argued that the order of creation is a mistake or is distorted because of sin, since there was no sin at that time.
Third, the appeal to creation means education level is not the basis for the command. There is no reason to believe that Adam and Eve were all that different in terms of their knowledge. Nothing from Genesis gives us any hint to believe that God’s choice to make Adam first had anything to do with learning abilities. Again, it was simply God’s choice to do it that way.
Fourth, the appeal to creation means that sexism cannot be accused. Adam and Eve were both created in the image of God; they are therefore equals with the same value as human beings. Neither is more important than the other, but merely different.
Was Paul right to use the order of creation as the reason to forbid women pastors?
In short, yes. If you were to suggest otherwise, you would be questioning that Paul was writing under the inspiration of the Spirit, therefore questioning if 1 Timothy even belongs in the canon of Scripture, and even subtly questioning if any of Paul’s writings belong in the Bible. If one would still put this suggestion forward, that is a topic for another blog post.
What about Paul’s mention of Eve’s deception? Is he implying that women are more gullible than men?
This is something that some scholars have suggested. However, I am not comfortable making that statement because I’m not sure that Paul was making a sweeping generalization about women. It could be argued that Paul is saying that women are more easily deceived than men and therefore not suited to lead as elders, and there are other passages that hint at the same thing (2 Timothy 3:6 for instance). Still, you could read the verse another way. Some have suggested that women were disqualified from eldership because their representative, Eve, lost them that opportunity by falling prey to the serpent’s deception. I am not convinced either way. I prefer to stick to Paul’s first and primary reason (the order of creation) and do not need any further explanation. God does not need to give reasons for his decisions in order for us to obey them.
Are there other verses that teach an exclusive male eldership?
Not exactly, but there are numerous passages and Biblical examples that would support this line of thinking. Some would include:
- Genesis 2:18-13. As already mentioned, the order of creation is the reason for male eldership.
- 1 Timothy 3:2. Just a few verses after the passage we are studying, Paul lists one qualification for eldership as being “the husband of one wife”. The assumption seems to be that elders would only ever be a “husband”, not a wife.
- Ephesians 5:22-33. In addressing how households should operate, it is plainly said that “the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church”. The concept of headship indicates leadership. It seems fitting then, that as men are to be heads of their households, so also the family of God should have men as the head as well (under the ultimate headship of Christ). In addition, how could a woman pastor have authority over her husband in the Church while having him be her head in the home?
- Titus 2:3-5. This passage says that women should teach other women, be “working at home” and “submissive to their own husbands”, again showing a deference of leadership to men.
- Old Testament elders are men. There is no record of any of Israel’s elders being women. Instead, the family heads and community leaders are always listed as being men (Deuteronomy 1:13, Exodus 18:21 for example).
- Old Testament priests are men. The priests of Israel are all men in the lineage of Levi.
- Israel’s kings are men. There is no mention of any woman being queen over Israel.
- Israel’s judges are men, with the exception of Deborah. Only one woman is mentioned as being a judge over Israel, showing the pattern of male leadership to be consistent. More on Deborah shortly.
- The disciples and apostles are all men. Though there are some important women in the ministry of the early Church, none of Jesus’ disciples or the apostles are women.
These verses individually do not prove male eldership, but together with 1 Timothy 2:11-12, there is an overwhelming pattern of male leadership in the Bible.
What about women in the Bible who are leaders?
There are some women in the Bible exercising forms of leadership. How can we square the teaching of Paul away with their examples?
- Deborah. As the only female judge among 13 mentioned, Deborah is the most prominent example of female leadership in the Bible. Most certainly she performed duties such as teaching and exercising authority over men. The reason Deborah does not nullify the command in 1 Timothy 2:11-12 is because she is not under the authority of the New Testament. Her leadership did not violate any commands in the Old Testament, the Bible of her day. Therefore, she does not stand as an example of female eldership under the New Testament framework.
- Huldah. The only female prophet of her day, Huldah also did not live under the authority of the New Testament, nor did she break any commands by functioning as a prophetess. Women were not forbidden from prophesying even in the New Testament (1 Corinthians 11:5).
- Esther. Esther served as queen while Israel was under Babylonian captivity. However, she technically was the queen of Babylon and not Israel. Not only this, she still was under the authority of her own husband, the king.
- Priscilla. In Acts 18:26, Priscilla’s name is mentioned before her husbands name. Some have taken this to mean that she was the more prominent figure in their ministry together. This may be true. However, in Acts 18, the couple pulls aside a preacher names Apollos in order to correct him on something he had taught. This appears to be a brief time of discipleship for Apollos under the couple’s care but does not necessarily mean that Priscilla did anything to contradict 1 Timothy 2:11-12. We should not assume this to be the case since Scripture is not clear about it. Apparently, this couple also hosted church gatherings in their house (Romans 16:5), but there is no mention that Priscilla is an elder of that congregation.
- Phoebe. While being described as a “servant” in the Church, there is no mention of Phoebe functioning in an elder capacity.
- Lydia. A wealthy businesswoman and worshipper of God, she is never said to be a pastor in the New Testament Church.
- Nympha. Like Priscilla, Nympha’s house functioned as a church gathering place, but there is no mention of her being a pastor of that gathering.
Quite simply, there is not one woman in the Bible who is explicitly mentioned as being in the role of elder/pastor. Conversely, every time the role is mentioned, it is done with masculine pronouns.
What about Galatians 3:28?
This verse is one that some cite as support for allowing women to be pastors. It states:
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
The phrase “no male and female” is taken by some to mean that there should be no distinctions based on gender in God’s Church. Yet this is not an acceptable meaning for two reasons. Firstly, the passage is speaking of the openness of salvation to all. The sacrifice of Christ and forgiveness from God is available to all people regardless of race, social status, or gender. Leadership is not in mind. Secondly, there must be gender distinctions within the Church, otherwise one would need to permit homosexual relationships as a God-approved practice. Granted, there are people who would make that claim, but again, that is for a different blog post.
Are there any circumstances where a woman could be a pastor?
I would argue that there could be. The main one that comes to mind is on the mission field, where the gospel has been recently introduced to a people group and there are only a few converts to the faith. If the most qualified person to lead that group (based on spiritual qualifications, doctrinal understanding, literacy etc.), besides the missionary, is female, then I would think that would be a suitable thing, if only as a temporary fix. Even still, I have never heard of such extreme circumstances and I do not expect that they would be very common.
Are women who are currently pastors sinning?
This may be the toughest question of them all. It does seem to me that women pastors are not obeying the Bible’s teaching on this subject and therefore would be doing something that God does not approve of. That is one way to define sin. At the same time, most women pastors – perhaps all – believe they are within the bounds of Scripture. I have never met a female pastor who believed that what she was doing is contrary to the Word of God. It would be much easier to call it sin if that were the case. But since women pastors are leading with sincerity, believing that they are not living outside the bounds of Scripture, I am not very comfortable calling it blatant sin. I will leave that judgment up to God. I would hope though that the teaching of the Bible is taken seriously and wrestled with before one takes on a position of authority in the Church.
When I have had these discussions with those who disagree with the view I’ve laid out, one challenge that is posed to me concerns the call of God. How can I refute that God has called someone into ministry? How can I question that a person has felt God’s call on their life? This is a tricky issue to navigate. On one hand I do not like to presume that I know God’s voice better than someone else. Nor do I like to imply that someone has wrongly heard God’s call. On the other hand, I believe that any time we “hear” God’s voice it should be tested first by the Word of God. If what we think we have heard is not approved of by Scripture, then we have not truly heard the voice of God. Again, this is a sensitive matter but an important one nonetheless.
One final thought
Something else should be said in all of this. While I believe that women do not qualify Biblically as pastors, I would say that does not automatically mean that men do either. Quite the contrary! The qualifications laid out for pastors in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 are steep. Many men who currently occupy pastoral roles do not qualify. Being male is just one qualification; there are about a dozen others that are meant to weed out those who are not meant to lead God’s Church. This why James warns that “not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness” (3:1). These are words to be taken soberly. Jesus’ Church functions best when it’s leaders meet all of the qualifications that God has laid out in his Word. It is no small thing to live up to.
I Said Something Wrong During This Week’s Youth Group Message
Posted on March 28, 2014 1 Comment
This past Wednesday night at our youth group meeting, we studied the story in John 11:1-46 where Lazarus dies and then Jesus raises him from the dead. It’s a powerful story – one of the most striking displays of Jesus’ miraculous power in the whole New Testament. But I said something during our study time that has been bugging me the last few days and I’d like to take a moment to straighten it out.
The message I gave had two takeaways from the story: (1) we need to trust Jesus even when things go wrong and we don’t understand what God is doing, and (2) Jesus is the only one who has power over death, and so we should trust him for eternal life.
In the story, both Mary and Martha are upset with Jesus that he did not come to heal their brother Lazarus of his illness. They both say to Jesus “if you had been here, our brother would not have died” (vs. 21 and 32). Essentially they are accusing Jesus of dropping the ball. This is something we are all guilty of doing; something bad happens and we look to God and say, “where were you?!” Yet Jesus intentionally did not come to heal Lazarus. He actually let him die on purpose. This insight comes from verse 6, which says
So, when he heard that Lazarus was ill, he stayed two days longer in the place where he was.
The word “so” here can also be translated “therefore”. In other words, Jesus stayed where he was for two more days rather than going to heal Lazarus because he knew he was deathly ill. Jesus’ reason for taking this strange course of action, he says, is because “It is for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it.” Jesus purposefully does not heal Lazarus so that he would die, so that Jesus could then come and raise him from the dead. This plan was to bring glory to God and to Jesus. Evidently, God would receive more glory by bringing Lazarus back from death rather than healing him and preventing death in the first place.
Now, here is where I botched it at youth group. After explaining all of this, I was transitioning to point 2 which is that we will all die and therefore we should prepare for death ahead of time. If memory serves me correct, what I actually said was “as if this isn’t depressing enough, we need to remember that we are all going to die”. When I said “as if this isn’t depressing enough”, what I meant was that hard stuff still happens in life (like the death of people we love, demonstrated by Lazarus). However, what I seemed to be implying was that God is somehow failing us by letting those things happen. It sounded like I was saying it is “depressing” that God would allow hard stuff to happen rather than delivering us from it.
To be clear, I do not believe that is true. In the story, Jesus obviously thinks it is better for Lazarus to die than it is to heal him. The reason it is better is because it will bring more glory to God. What we should take away from this is that God allows hard stuff to happen to us because ultimately it will bring more glory to God than if he had prevented it from happening in the first place. Like Mary and Martha, we may not understand how that can be the case. But as we see in the end of the story of Lazarus, Jesus had a plan all along. In our own lives, we may face hard stuff that we hope God takes away, but ultimately we need to trust that Jesus has a plan that is better than ours even if we don’t understand it, and that plan will ultimately end in God being glorified. This is not “depressing” but rather encouraging, faith-building, and wonderful.
This is why I feel the need to correct what I said. Basically, I said that the way Jesus works is “depressing” when actually it is encouraging, faith-building, and wonderful. It is no small thing to misspeak when teaching the Word of God and representing Christ. What we say matters, especially as teachers (James 3:1), and we will be held accountable for every faulty word spoken. I hope to be an example of someone who takes this seriously. I want to show Jesus to be as wonderful as he actually is, and I want my students to know that this means being careful with words and even correcting them if necessary. I hope I have made it clear why I felt the need to clarify and correct what I said, and I hope that the truth as rightly taught is an encouragement to you in your time of trouble.
Reflections on the Death of Fred Phelps
Posted on March 22, 2014 1 Comment
Fred Phelps, the infamous founder and pastor of Westboro Baptist Church (WBC) in Topeka, Kansas, died this week at the age of 84. Phelps and his church are known primarily for their relentless anti-gay picketing (as well as picketing other things such as the funerals of American soldiers, Jewish institutions, rock concerts, etc.) and their hate-speech-laced website which I have chosen not to link to. If you really wanted to, it’s not hard to find. According to their website, the WBC has conducted over 52,000 pickets since 1955. WBC is a church of roughly 40-50 active members, virtually all of which are related to Phelps by blood or marriage. One writer rightly says WBC should be referred to as a “family cult” and not a church. Interestingly, rumour has it that WBC ousted Phelps as their pastor not long ago on the charge that he was being too kind with others and therefore compromising his stance on the truth.
Reactions to his passing have been what most would expect. To put it kindly, most people are responding with some version of “good riddance”, though much harsher and forthright language has been frequently used. Despite being an extremely small number of people, Phelps and his WBC comrades have managed to make a lot of noise over the years, garnering far more media attention than was warranted and putting a particularly contorted image forth of what it means to be a Bible-believing Christian.
It’s hard even to know where to start in response to all of this. For what it’s worth, here is my attempt to pull together some (hopefully) worthwhile thoughts on his life and passing, the WBC, and what it all means in the long run.
- Phelps was a human being made in the image of God. It’s easy to see Phelps as a monster – and in some respects, there is truth to that assessment. But at the same time, we should not lose sight of the reality that he was created by God and therefore had value as a person. God loved him and wanted him to repent and receive grace and forgiveness. We’ll never know if that happened or not.
- Phelps and the WBC do not represent Christ. It’s been frustrating to me over the years that this small group of people have received so much media attention. That’s how the media works however – find the craziest thing you can and show it everyone. It’s sad. I wonder, what would have changed if the media was covering healthy, Jesus-loving churches instead? The world would see imperfect but loving communities, people with changed lives, community service, healed marriages, restored families, and the like. I know this because the church I am a part of has stories like this in our midst. I wish more people knew about that.
- The message of Phelps and WBC is despicable. Up to this point, you may think I have being going soft on these guys. But don’t get me wrong: the hate-filled messages that the WBC promote is awful and disgusting and evil. It is not Biblical Christianity and does not honour God. The sooner that message fades away (if indeed it ever will), the better.
- How strongly do you really believe in salvation by grace? This is the question every believer needs to ask themselves. No one goes to heaven because they deserve it. We all are sinners who fall short of God’s standards and need the forgiveness that is offered to us by the death of Christ. That includes you, me, and Fred Phelps. Would it bother you if, on his death bed, Phelps received Christ and is now in heaven? If it does (and it’s a striking thought), then maybe you need to remind yourself that you don’t deserve forgiveness any more than he does. Salvation comes by grace, not our good deeds. To push it even further, we should hope that Phelps indeed found salvation. If we don’t, we are guilty of the same hatred that he spread. God himself shares his own thoughts by saying “I have no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Lord GOD; so turn, and live.” (Ezekiel 18:32)
- We need to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). There is one thing commendable about the WBC: they believe the Word of God and declare what they think it says. Granted, they have seriously erred on their interpretation of the Bible in many respects, and do not declare what they believe with a heart of love, but at least they have some sense of the need to stand for truth. I can respect that much about them, and it is a desirable alternative to the liberalism of today. But as Christians, we should not go to either extreme (liberalism or hatred), but stick to the Biblical mandate of speaking the truth in love.
- Christianity will always be condemned as hate speech. Let’s not kid ourselves. Do I share the hate-filled views of Phelps and the WBC? No. But do I believe homosexuality is a sin? Yes. Do I believe in hell? Yes. Do I believe Jesus is the only way to heaven, and that all other religious views are wrong? Yes. No matter how nice I am, how much I pray for people, or how much good I do, I’ll still be called a hate-filled, closed-minded, intolerant bigot by some. I can accept that, though I would not agree with the assessment. Fellow believers, are you ready to receive intense criticism, even if your faith is more Christ-like than others’?
- There is a little Fred Phelps in all of us. Actually, maybe there is a lot. Jesus condemned hatred as being equal with murder (Matthew 5:21-22). Christians who hate others are also called “liars” (1 John 4:20) and are said to be “in darkness” (1 John 2:9). And before we get ourselves off the hook by thinking we aren’t usually guilty of hate, consider that “if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him?” (1 John 3:17) Hate is not always an action, but sometimes a lack of action. How often are you and I guilty of having the ability to show love and then not do anything? Every time we do, we are demonstrating hate and not expressing the love of God that is in us.
I’m not sure about you, but I think this is some serious food for thought!


















